October 20, 2024

Trump has a 13 year old boy's anatomical obsession, by Hal M. Brown, MSW

 

The quote "sometimes a cigar is just a cigar" is usually attributed to Freud although there's no reference to where he might have said this.

The above image is AI, but in many photos, like this one from his Wikipedia bio, he's shown smoking or holding a cigar.

Of course this references cigars being a phallic symbol in dreams. With cigar smokers like himself I expect he thought it was perfectly normal to enjoy them. Unfortunately at the end of his life he battled mouth cancer. Yesterday Trump left no doubt about his being in awe of men with exceptionally large penises.

Trump Kicks Off A Pennsylvania Rally By Talking About Arnold Palmer's Genitalia

Michael  Steele and Elizabeth Warren were talking about it this morning and as I write this Ali Velshi just mentioned it on MSNBC.


A few days ago we were watching a TV crime mystery series where the protagonist was a part-time teacher in a private school. The show was "Who Is Erin Carter?" (and we recommend it).

She had a defiant male student in her class who was the son of one of the richest men in a small Spanish town. In an exam the boy finished in just a few minutes and handed in his paper laying it down on her desk with a smirk on his face. "Are you done already" she said, surprised, but then she looked down at the answer sheet and saw why he could finsih so quickly. It had drawings of big penises all over it instead of answers.

The father was a big donor to the school and she had to explain why she gave him an F when he came to talk to her. She just showed him the exam paper and he understood and ended up asking her to tutor his son.

Here he is with his father:


I thought about this when I read what was the top story on HuffPost last night and this morning. 

Excerpt:

LATROBE, Pa. (AP) — Donald Trump’s campaign suggested he would begin previewing his closing argument Saturday night with Election Day barely two weeks away. But the former president kicked off his rally with a detailed story about Arnold Palmer, at one point even praising the late, legendary golfer’s genitalia.

Trump was campaigning in Latrobe, Pennsylvania, where Palmer was born in 1929 and learned to golf from his father, who suffered from polio and was head pro and greenskeeper at the local country club.

Politicians saluting Palmer in his hometown is nothing new. But Trump spent 12 full minutes doing so at the top of his speech and even suggested how much more fun the night would be if Palmer, who died in 2016, could join him on stage.

“Arnold Palmer was all man, and I say that in all due respect to women,” Trump said. “This is a guy that was all man.”

Then he went even further.

“When he took the showers with other pros, they came out of there. They said, ‘Oh my God. That’s unbelievable,’” Trump said with a laugh. “I had to say. We have women that are highly sophisticated here, but they used to look at Arnold as a man.”

Of course penises are a common preoccupation with adolsecent boys. As any middle school teacher or custodian  can tell you about the drawings they see in the bathroom stalls of the boy's bathrooms. I don't know who draws them but I've seen them in the men's bathrooms on the interstate and even in nice restaurants. They are also a common street graffiti drawing.

I want to keep this blog PG so for the women reading this if they want a look inside these Men's bathrooms here's a Google Image search.

There are more indications that Trump has dementia than merely this one. This example also demonstrates that there is something seriously amiss in the 78 year old man's brain. It shows both disinhibition and poor judgment. These are symptoms of dementia.

Did he think he was back in his school boy's locker making lewd remarks to an audience of his cronies? Consider that when he made his infamous "I can grab them by the pussy" remark he thought this would never be shared publicly. This was something he said in a rally. 

If your elderly relative with dementia compared a large bratwurst to his penis at a family dinner you would understand and sadly accept this. This is a presidential candidate talking about big penises in a televised rally.

In Arnold Palmer's hometown with all the things he could say in praise of him he ended up talking about the size of the golf legend's penis. There's something really, really wrong with this.

It is, plain and simply, diagnostic. It is the cognitive version of an underlying disease as coughing up blood would be.

Afterthought:

Trump doesn't smoke. I wonder whether if he did he'd smoke cigars.

Perchance AI image.










October 19, 2024

We know Erich Fromm from his formulating the condition of malignant narcissism,. but his book "On Disobedience" is very relevant today, by Hal M. Brown, MSW

Erich Fromm's name often comes up in reference to Trump being a malignant narcissist because he is the one who first formulated this as a psychological condition.  Mental health experts beginning with Dr. John Gartner in his 2017 article in USA Today ("Trump's maligant narcissism is toxic") have been using this formulation of psychological conditions to describe Trump.

Erommw as a prolific writer probably best know for his books "The Art of Loving." and "Escape From Freedom." 

One of his less known works, "On Disobedience," is particularly relevant today. 

Various portions of "On Disobedience" were published in other works in the early 1960's. The book is espcially relevant today. You can read several of the first pages here.

This part addresses why people are so easily led by authority figures like Trump.

From the book: 

Why is man so prone to obey and why is it so difficult for him to disobey? As long as I am obedient to the power of the State, the Church, or public opinion, I feel safe and protected. In fact it makes little difference what power it is that I am obedient to. It is always an institution, or men, who use force in one form or another and who fraudulently claim omniscience and omnipotence. My obedience makes me part of the power I worship, and hence I feel strong. I can make no error, since it decides for me; I cannot be alone, because it watches over me; I cannot commit a sin, because it does not let me do so, and even if I do sin, the punishment is only the way of returning to the almighty power.

In order to disobey, one must have the courage to be alone, to err and to sin. But courage is not enough. The capacity for courage depends on a person's state of development. Only if a person has emerged from mother's lap and father's commands, only if he has emerged as a fully developed individual and thus has acquired the capacity to think and feel for himself, only then can he have the courage to say "no" to power, to disobey.


A person can become free through acts of disobedience by learning to say no to power. But not only is the capacity for disobedience the condition for freedom; freedom is also the condition for disobedience. If I am afraid of freedom, I cannot dare to say "no," I cannot have the courage to be disobedient. Indeed, freedom and the capacity for disobedience are inseparable; hence any social, political, and religious system which proclaims freedom, yet stamps out disobedience, cannot speak the truth.


There is another reason why it is so difficult to dare to disobey, to say "no" to power. During most of human history obedience has been identified with virtue and disobedience with sin. The reason is simple: thus far throughout most of history a minority has ruled over the majority. This rule was made necessary by the fact that there was only enough of the good things of life for the few, and only the crumbs remained for the many. If the few wanted to enjoy the good things and, beyond that, to have the many serve them and work for them, one condition was necessary: the many had to learn obedience. To be sure, obedience can be established by sheer force. But this method has many disadvantages. It constitutes a constant threat that one day the many might have the means to overthrow the few by force; further more there are many kinds of work which cannot be done properly if nothing but fear is behind the obedience. Hence theobedience which is only rooted in the fear of force must be transformed into one rooted in man's heart. Man must want and even need to obey, instead of only fearing to disobey. If this is to be achieved, power must assume the qualities of the All Good, of the All Wise; it must become All Knowing. 


If this happens, power can proclaim that disobedience is sin and obedience virtue; and once this has been proclaimed, the many can accept obedience because it is good and detest disobedience because it is bad, rather than to detest themselves for being cowards.


Blog from this morning here.






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